Men With Style

Whenever someone asks "What do you first notice in a guy?", I answer, "Their shoes." and I usually get a weirded out frown. Only my fasyon and gay friends will understand this bit I guess. A guy's shoes says a lot about their personality, taste and overall style. So if I don't like what I see south of a hot guy's ankle then he ain't so hot to me anymore. Unless your name is Zac Efron or Chace Crawford that is. Ha! But then again imagine someone that handsome wearing dirty lace-up bulldogs. Aaaaccccckkkk! What a terrible thought.


Very few guys are comfortable enough to experiment with looks, let alone have the talent for layering and coming out polished and put-together. Most men are divided into 2 categories: The Boy-Next-Door (sneakers + jeans + Cotton shirt/Polo) and The Smarts (well-tailored suits and jackets + designer crisp shirts and expensive leather goods). Those who run in the middle of the fence are very hard to spot these days. Just like women, mixing the highs and lows is key. Hard to explain so check out my list of MEN WITH STYLE to know what I mean!



Eric delos Santos - one who always collaborates with menswear designer friends for experimental pieces he can match with his cool vintage finds and fancy sneaks. Even his leather shoes usually has a sporty, quirky twist to it. Love that.



Andre Chang - His blog is called "Style Maven". Nuff said.



Jerome Lorico - Whenever I see him, I feel like he should be walking on the crowded streets of Tokyo instead of Makati. And he makes inexpensive pieces look designer. Street style sweet!



Sidney Yap - The statement jacket is always his key piece. And boy, does he have a LOT of them!



Robby Carmona - There has never been an instance when I saw him and didn't say (out loud or in my head) "Oooohhh how fabulous!!"


And because I am currently addicted to Korean TV, I might as well add a couple of Korean stars on my list:



Hot Korean boy group Big Bang's TOP has the best tailored suits with quirky prints and details. Even cheap hoodies look cool on him. Couldn't find any paparazzi shots of him but watch Big Bang TV (a reality show) to see for yourself! (Watch out for his lip-printed suit, D-I-E!!! How fabulous can a straight guy get?)



World renowned Korean superstar Rain. Even boot legs look sexy on him. The room probably goes below zero everytime he enters. LMAO.


I also can't help but notice how beautiful the guy stars are from Korea. They're handsome but on the pretty side although not in a gay kind of way. Must be the fact that really stylish men are comfortable enough with their own bodies and sexuality that not even pieces bordering on the female side can stop them.


You think Piolo can pull that off too? :)

ON MY LIST

This season I am on a Fashion Week hiatus - too much work to do in the shop, things I cannot possibly postpone - "overloaded" does not even suffice. Abroad, not participating in Fashion Week means losing buyers, in Manila there are no buyers except for your usual clients who comes to watch your show. Hence, it is imperative that a young designer such as myself make these made-to-order clients the top priority. Business first, ALWAYS. There is always the Holiday 2011 show anyway.


I attended some of the shows and of course, went to support my sistas! These are sooo on my "To-Order-List":



From Eric's collection. The maillot is mine, mine, mine!



Bea P. was contemplating whether to get the fuchia dress or the turquoise one. I said "Get both!" (I am also digging the vest! Le Chic!!)


On another note:


How cool is this?! You go sissy Jerome! And best of all, YOU GO DIREK ROBBIE! *clap clap!*



A dress I can style in 1&*$% ways! Check!



Always on the lookout for sexy, sexy leggings and mareng Martin hit the jackpot! Had a legging orgasm right there! LOL!! :D



L-O-V-E!!! You think I can pull this off, mareee?



The baggy-dress-loving girl that I am fell for this Veejay Floresca piece.



So sexy and rich-looking! I have been scouting for the perfect white dress and voila!



I am digging this look except I have a big arse and those pretty pants won't look flattering on moi. :-(


And ito, hindi ko kinaya:



When sissy Eric said he's using a huge buri hat, he really meant HUGE! This is soo perfect for the beach!



After Eric and Jerome's back to back showdown last night, Bea P. and I decided to binge at Chelsea. Totally forgetting to take a photo of our Eric delos Santos dresses til we got back to her house!



B wears her EDLS bondage number with lovely pumps from Theodore's while I matched my slashed dress with a Sepa necklace and Nine West peep toe booties. People in Serendra were staring, guess they thought I was having a real skin peek-a-boo. Bomba star levels, much?


Must talk numbers with the sissies after this! Exciting!

Ondoy

September 26, Saturday -- I wake up at 11 AM to the sound of my ringing cellie. It's mother.

"Wake up, wake up! Your dad and I are in church and we sent the driver out. The maid says our house is flooded! HELP HER!" She's clearly panicking. Thinking it was a mere exaggeration, I groggily got up and walked towards the dining room. As I stepped down from the hallway and felt cold water, I realize she wasn't kidding. And the maid was already busily mopping the floor. I called Arlee right away to come over, my mom's panic attack rubbed off on me. Last time the house got flooded was back in 1994. I realize Ondoy can't be just another typhoon. I turn on the TV a few hours later and realize I was right.




My mom's poor little garden. Photo taken after the water subsided.



The garage. Cars aren't home. My parents and the driver had to leave the cars on Central Avenue because it was impassable that afternoon. As of the moment, we have a CRV there awaiting a tow truck. Tried to get through the flood that day and it broke down on me!


We're lucky the water inside the house only reached up to the ankle. Outside it was knee high but I knew it must be worse in other areas. Specifically my tita's and cousin's homes in Kingsville Subdivision in Antipolo. We were so worried about them for 2 days. Today my cousin ate Ayee finally got to see them. Thank heavens they're safe. Material things can be gained back, but health is the real wealth so to speak. I'm glad all my friends and family are safe. But I am also saddened by their losses. :-(

I have been seeing heart breaking photographs and videos lately. Children who drowned, dead pets covered in mud, smashed cars and houses. I dare not post them here. My old highschool was flooded too. There are people who took shelter under their ceiling or on their roof while waiting to be rescued for hours and even days! I've been hearing stories of loss and miracles, all very overwhelming. Especially the way people are helping each other any way they can right now.

After I publish this post I shall go back to segregating my things for relief goods. It's the least I can do.

Goodbye Is The Hardest Word

That's me zipping up my sister's wedding gown four years ago. As I type this, she's probably flying above the vicinity of LAX by now. About to land to a new life, a new home with her husband. I really am happy that they're finally together. But it is hard to let go of the life we shared together as roommates in the 26 years of my existence (we supposedly separated bedrooms a few years ago but I still sleep in hers, LOL!) and being sisters-in-crime. Though we grew up as frenemies as children -- and still the occasional bickering from time to time as adults -- she has been my good good friend through thick and thin. My loyal fan who never ceases to text and update friends (much to my embarrassment) with events I'm doing or new publicity features. When bitches got in my way, she fought them with me. She was one of my kaladkarins (in layman's term, someone you can tag along whenever, wherever). One who listened to my whining and bore with my bitchy ways. Who is going to reciprocate when I roll my eyes at the "circus side" family gathering now? Or talk to me late at night when the lights are off but my mind still won't shut up? Or shop with me during family trips when le parents just wanna kick back and not walk for hours?

I swore not to cry because I wanted a happy new beginning for her. But as I hugged her for the last time at the airport the tears wouldn't stop from falling. Atchi was the ultimate big sister, the ideal eldest daughter. To say she's responsible and kindhearted is an understatement, thus the endless string of godchildren. That's how I know she'll make an incredible mother. Knowing she's on the baby track gives me another reason to be happy for her. And knowing they are finally together and starting a new life as husband and wife (sans Skype) stops the tears from falling any further. My eyes are puffy as it is anyway.

I'm supposed to clear her room today and move into it. But I'm not ready to do that just yet. Memories flood like crazy and sleeping alone in that big bed is just too much to handle.

In two weeks my boyfriend Arlee goes back home to Florida as well. And my other best mate Leah had left for California a few months ago too. Everyone is leaving. Maybe I should make a career out of crying. What is it with US that makes people leave? Everyone seems to be gearing up for a new life ahead. And even though I am left behind, it also leads a new life for me. A new life without my backbone, quieter nights without loud laughter and DVD marathons alone. I'm embracing this new change although it comes with great difficulty. Goodbye definitely is the hardest word.

September So Good!

Preview cover girl Kim Chiu in a top by me and Zara skirt and belt.


Mega Magazine unveils their Top 10 bets from the Philippine Fashion Week Holiday Collections...



...and features 25 young designers to interpret 5 design masters. All in this month's issue.



Stella's Designer Profile feature on yours truly.








Thank you, thank you, thank you. :-)

Maricar Reyes in Czarina Villa

When Alyanna asked if I would be interested in dressing up one of her Star Magic stars, I instantly said "Yes, if she were Maricar Reyes or Shaina Magdayao." And so I was ecstatic to find out that Maricar said yes to me making her gown for the Ball. Four sleepless nights and a few bottles of Redbull later, this was the aftermath.

So no, it wasn't by Francis Libiran as printed on the Inquirer today. How sad for me. :-(


Thanks to Alyanna Martinez though for this rad opportunity. Always a pleasure working with my real-girl-sista!

Preview + Rockwell

Last Friday, I braved the traffic to support Preview magazine. They said to come in your favorite all-black Fall trend.



Happenin' PREVIEW gals: Daryl, the lovely Pauline Suaco-Juan (in Rajo. The dress is L-O-V-E!!!) and Liz Uy.




With the beautiful and talented BFFs Bibai Gaisano of Renegade Folk (aren't those hot pink shoes pretty?!) and Rachelle Que -- whose style I so adore! I look like I have a dick here though. LMAO!!



We love Daryl!



Everyone noticed Raymond Santiago's bomber jacket.



Just had to take a photo of the life size Preview September issue. My black top adorned with my Palabok detail made it on the cover. YAY!



Photo c/o Daryl (plucked out from her blog: stylesamurai). Wore my ribbed black pin tucked taffeta pants and raw edge jacket (the one from my PFW Holiday 2008 collection)


Close-up shot of the detail:




True to our glutonic selves, Martin, Eric and I pigged out at Myron's Place afterwards...



Yum...




This makes me hungry.

Sissies (Rated G) Night Out

WHERE and WHAT: Dinner at Apartment 1B, Greenbelt 3 for District 9 and yogurt madness at Red Mango (we eat our yogurts buffet style! Addict much?) and finally, midnight snack at North Park, Makati Ave. (No photos for the latter).


M.I.A.: Regine Dulay. You owe us sis!!

TOPICS OF CONVERSATION: The usual - The things and people we love and loathe. As well as matters that are not so rated G.



Just Eric and Veejay for now. Others are still fitting and styling elsewhere.



One of my all time favorites: Apartment 1B's roasted half chicken! Which I finished right away. I woke up this morning still feeling full.



Arlee's plate. The Fil-American that he is. LOL.]



Eric's baby back ribs. YUM!



Veejay, being the healthy person that he is, had fish and vegetables with pasta. (Sorry for the blurry photo).



Patrick's here now. Yogurts gone in less than 5 minutes. :)



Digging Red Mango's light fixtures.



Post movie shot at 2AM. My verdict: 6.5/10. Martin's verdict: 7/10. What do YOU think?



Followed by a looong day at work today which ended at 9PM. The last thing on the agenda was fitting my muse for the upcoming Star Magic Ball at my real-girl sissy Alyanna Martinezes' office.


We all wore black today, what gives? Anyhoo, I missed Martin for 21 hours!


Just had to capture Alyanna's look today. Lovin' it, love, love!



And this is where I sign off to hit the sheets. Night folks!

Can't Hardly Wait

Life just isn't the same without my weekly dose of GG. September 14 feels like eons away.


The Gossip Girl Season 3 Cast Shot (photo c/o gossipgirlinsider.com)


My oh my, where did little J get those fabulous gloves?!

Cherry Cherry Boom Boom!

Went gaga over la Lady Gaga! I couldn't get enough and my Gaga gang was absolutely disappointed when we realized there wasn't going to be any encore. What the F is that anyway?! Is it because the producers didn't have budget for another 15 minutes of Miss Gaga?


We were originally opting for the front row but they were sold out the next day. We partied like rockstahs in our VIP Patron seats nonetheless and ended up sweating all the booze we loaded up pre-show. LMAO.



Fueling up for LADY GAGAAAAAA!



Gaga boys!



Chicas in Gaga outfits. (Me in my own Palabok jacket, Bea Panopio in John Paras with Martin Bautista embellished gloves and Alyanna Martinez in Lanvin with tights she got from the US that B and I were sooo coveting!)



We're in now!






Seats aren't so bad.



"Boys, boys, boys...We like boys in cars..."



This is how I was able to watch from afar! (Astigmatism is a bitch!)



Jigsyyyy! :)






Taking a 2-minute break from all the sing-and-dance madness. LOL!



Her Gaganess herself



"I got a very strange question from a fan recently... They asked 'Lady Gaga, do you have a dick?' I said, 'Yeah I do and it's much bigger than yours'."



We want more! We want more! We want more!



THE AFTERMATH: No encore? :(


In conclusion it was an amazing, amazing show and Lady Gaga is too cute for words! Girl can rock the guitar, the piano and her vocals are fantastic. In my humble opinion, she really is this generation's Madonna. And noone can rock panties like she can!


P.S.
Whoever got the gloves Lady Gaga threw out, feel free to message me in case you're selling! To say I want them is an understatement.